Once Upon a Peace Treaty...

                                   

     A couple months ago, I rode on a horse.
     And I know that means nothing to you, so let me tell you a little story of something that occurred about six years ago.
     It happened in 2006. I was eleven years old. Every few years my small town puts on a show called the Peace Treaty which is a two hour reenactment of Kansas history all the way from Coronado passing through Kansas up until the white men sighing a peace treaty with the Indians, hence, the name of the pageant. Thousands of people from all over the country come to watch the historical reenactment in our outdoor amphitheater. Everyone in my town pitches in to make the performance. I was in a scene called the Prairie Flower scene with dozens of other little girls. We were waiting to rehearse our scene when it happened.
     A horse broke loose.
     Having grown up on a farm, I had been around horses since I was in diapers so the fact that a horse had run away didn't phase me in the least.
     That is...until it was charging straight at us.
     Panic kicked in. Chaos erupted. It felt like a movie playing in slow motion. The dozens of girls from my scene fled in every direction. I desperately glanced around and started wildly running up a hill, clutching onto every branch or twig that I could find.
      Climb the hill, Anna. Get away from the horse. Climb the hill.
     Out of harm's way...for the moment...Until I glanced over my shoulder and saw the horse plowing up the hill. Heading straight at me. Clutching onto some shrubbery, I crouched as close to the ground as I possibly could.
    I have no recollection of the next few minutes. The next thing I remember was the horse jumping over, feeling its warm, fuzzy stomach brush over my back. What was racing through that eleven-year-old brain of mine? I have no idea, but what I do know is that I should have been hurt or at the very least seriously injured. But I wasn't. Other than being shaken up, I was completely unharmed.
     On that day, I developed a fear of horses. Every time I was around them after that episode, fear kicked in. My heart started racing. I would relive that September day and the horse would be jumping over me all over again. Some people looked at horses and saw their beauty and majesty. I looked at them and saw their power and strength. And for the next six years, that fear controlled me.
    When my best friend Joanna came to visit from Alaska, she really wanted to ride horses. So I arranged for us to ride horses with Terry, a good family friend. I had ridden horses occasionally over the past six years, but always very tense and afraid. A few weeks later, Joanna and I met up with Terry on the wide open prairie with the red gyp hills and broom weed as a background. For the first part of the ride, I sat nervous and tense as the three of us ventured down canyons and through cedar trees.
     Once we made it back to the open prairie, Terry taught Joanna how to gallop. And that's when I decided: I was not leaving until I had galloped. It took some time, but I finally did it-and LOVED it. I finally galloped on a horse and by doing so had conquered my fears.
     Dear fears...
     You. Don't. Own. Me

Living Vs. Being Alive?

Death is more universal than life; Everyone dies, but not everyone lives. ~Alan Sachs

I love that quote so much. There is a world of difference between living and actually being alive. Because everyone lives, but not everyone is alive. Let me illustrate by sharing a recent story. The other day I went around town and dropped off flyers for those interested in learning piano lessons. A few hours later, I received a phone call from a Dad whose three daughters were interested in learning piano. A little bit into the conversation, he questioned, "Would you be interested in teaching a forty-year-old man piano?" Taken by surprise, I managed to stutter out a reply. Thankfully, he was a very talkative man and quickly explained himself. In September, he explained, he'd fallen from a thirty-foot window mill and had literally died. The doctors, however, had been able to bring him back to life by inserting a metal tube into his heart. The tube was the only thing currently keeping him from bleeding to death. It was sort of a experiment, the Dad explained to me. And even though he was stable at the moment, he honestly had no clue how long he would live. He could live to be old or could die anytime. Because of that, he wanted to enjoy every moment and learn new things-one of which, happened to be piano. He concluded: "When I'm lying there dying, I wanna be able to say, 'I did it all.'" That blew me away; I was so inspired and touched by this true story. This brings up a question: why do we live our lives assuming we'll live to be old? Not too long ago, a teenager around here was killed in a tragic car accident. Even though I didn't know him, I remember feeling affected. He was seventeen when he was killed me-the same age of me. If I died right now, would I be okay with it? Part of me says yes. I cannot wait to meet Jesus, walk with Him in heaven, and climb on His lap. I can't wait to meet the brothers and sisters my Mom miscarried before they ever had the chance to live. But at the same time, I know there's still so much I want to do here, now, before I die. That's part of the reason I started a bucket list and try to be so intentional about making memories. I don't just to live. I don't just want to live for a check list or get wrapped up in the busyness and worries of life. After all, relationships are the only thing we can take to heaven. At the end of the day, our checklists don't matter one bit. All that matters at the end of the day-all-is relationships. Our relationship with God  is of utmost importance followed by our relationships with those around us. When I die, no matter how old I am, I want to have nothing left in me.

      Nothing. 

      I want to have spent everything-my energy, my time, my money-investing into my relationship with God and my relationships with the people God has graciously surrounded me with. I really like how it was phrased in a Bible verse I read yesterday-something to be degree of being poured out like a liquid offering. When most people think of 1 Corinthians 13, commonly referred to as the "Love Chapter", they often think, "Love is patient, love is kind..." But I love the first couple verses of the chapter. Check them out! It basically says that without love, we are nothing. It doesn't matter if we give all we have to the pour, if we are martyrs, if we can speak in tongues...Without love, our lives are nothing. 

     So. I encourage you guys to go out and BE ALIVE. Live life to the fullest. That's why Jesus died. Go pour yourself out. Die to yourself. Love. Leave it all on the playing field. Stop making excuses. Relationships are the only thing that matter-don't forget it! 

God, help me. I don't just want to fight to survive.

I want to experience what it means to be fully alive.

That Which Does Not Kill You....

     Everyone always says that change can be a good thing, but honestly, I'm baffled as to how something so painful could supposedly be good.  Most people would probably generally agree with me that change is often a painful experience. I honestly cringe when I imagine my sister and best friend, Bethany, leaving for January and then me eventually leaving for college. I get sad to think about the end of years of NCFCA and my youth group. I hate thinking about saying goodbye to people, knowing that some relationships will never be the same. And I get scared knowing that I will step from what is comfortable into what is unknown. My head knows that in the end change has the power to strengthen me, but my heart doesn't believe it. It's so hard pouring and investing so much into friendships and relationships knowing that before I know it, everything will lead up to the goodbye. Part of me wants to deny that that everything will change and pretend this will last forever, but I know that's not fair of myself. Instead, I want to let change strengthen me and make me a stronger person. As the popular quote says, "That which does not kill you will only make you stronger." So the question I've been wondering the past couple days is how? How do we let change strengthen us? If you have any answers or ideas, I'd love to hear your thoughts!
     Instead of denying that one day I'll have to move beyond the four walls of my little town and step out of my comfort zone, I want to live in light of that. My theme for the remainder of 2012 is this: make intentional memories. I want to make memories, do spontaneous things and laugh a lot. I want to love and pour into relationships, no matter how difficult the goodbye will be. I have to remember that bigger and better things are yet to come. As much as I love my tiny town, as much as I've enjoyed NCFCA, God created me for more. There's a world out there waiting for me to explore. I refuse to live my life in fear and in the safety of my comfort zone. Summary: change is inevitable. How will you respond to it? 

Jane Austen, summer adventures, concerts and music

Yo, dawgs. How we doing? I hope you all are having a spiffy summer! Have you done anything exciting? I've had a great summer, even though I'm still doing school.
May...Kicked off the month with the NCFCA regional touranment. Had our home-school play about the Titanic. It was a fabulous experience and worth all the hours, sweat, and tears poured into it. Two of my sisters also graduated in May and we got to go to Cali for our older sister's graduation.
June...Went to Minnesota for Nationals, which was awesome. Got 14th place in duo with my lil' sis.
July...Went to our Uncle's house at the Lake of the Ozarks for the 4th of July. Ate wayyyy too much ice cream! :) Had a good time boating and tubing. Yesterday I went to a Cody Simpson/Big Time Rush concert with my homegirls. It was an amazing show with fireworks, confetti, beach balls, crazy lights, and amazing singers. I always joke about marrying Cody Simpson, who is like the Austrailian Justin Bieber. :p And Big Time Rush was my friend's favorite band so it was perfect! I frantically listened to BTR and Cody Simpson music a couple days before the concert so I would actually know their music. I've also been having lotsa sleepovers, watching Jane Austen movies, writing poems, researching for debate, and making sandwiches at Subway.

Lately I've been learning how you really can't decide if you're going to have a good day. Last week was like a rollar coaster; one day was good, the next was bad, and on and on. I decided life is a lot like tubing; you can't decide where the waves take you, or how high they are, or bumpy your ride is. All you can do is hold on and have the time of your life. And even if you can't decide if you're going to have a good day or not, you can decide what type of attitude you're going to have. Make lemonade out of lemons, my friends.

I am not creative; my sisters, however, are. So what do I do? Steal their ideas. For instace, my sister Rebekah started something called a joy jar. You get a jar and everyday, write something you're thankful for from the day and put it in the jar. At Thanksgiving, Christmas, or the New Year, you can open it up and look at everything you wrote. Count your blessings.
My sister, Bethany, also started a prayer box. Now, I hate to admit it, but I always forget to pray for people. So I "borrowed" Bethany's idea of having a prayer box and writing down prayers for people and putting them in the box.

Why am I telling you guys this? Because I want you to steal the ideas, too!! :)

Okay. Peace out, my friends.

Nationals

This past week my lil Sis and I had the amazing oppertunity to go compete at the National NCFCA tournament. It was such an amazing experience and getting fourteenth place in our duo was pretty exciting, not to mention a total, complete God thing. We did our duo on a book written by Gene Edwards called, "The Day I Was Crucified."  Here's a link to it (thanks to Magali!) since a lot of you have been asking about it. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycE0Gg575B8&feature=plcp

A prison.
That's all it really was, wasn't it? Not a literal prison, but it was a prison nonetheless. A prison that I, in fact, wore.
A mask.
A mask I had created to protect me from nosy questions and prying eyes. A mask to hide my insecurities and fears. My past. My hurt. But the problem with wearing a mask is this. Overtime, the mask is no longer simply a part of us. No, instead it becomes who we are, our identity. It is much harder to take a mask off than to put it on.
And I learned this: the mask I once wore to protect me now only served to suffocate me. Little by little, it sucked the life out of me.
"Help! I need help. I'm stuck in a prison and I can't get out!!"

Lately I've been reading the book Truefaced, which is what inspired me to write the story above (which is also the same idea I'm going to use for my original next year.) Truefaced basically deals with learning to trust God and others with who we genuinely are instead of wearing masks. And, yes, even though masks-like a prison- might keep us "safe", they don't allow us to truly live. John 10:10 tells us that Jesus came so that we could have life and have it to the fullest. Most abundantly. I love that. I want to learn how to live life without a mask. To live on "real street", as I call it. And most importantly, to live out who God ways I am. My identity and confidence should be found in who God says I am, and nothing less. I encourage you guys to do the same! Live out who Christ says you are-without the mask.

Greetings from California! Today my sister is graduating from BIOLA University here in La Mirada, California. I flew up on Wednesday to spend a couple days alone with my sister before the rest of our family came joined us a couple days later. Rebekah and I enjoyed Wednesday and Thursday together exploring campus, hanging out with her friends, going to the beach at night, going to a delicious milkshake place in Hollywood, exploring downtown Disney, and other fun stuff. Today my family and I all went to the beach. Though it was a little chilly and windy out, we had a good time nonetheless. It's been a good, relaxing week, but I'm starting to look forward to getting back to home sweet home. What are your plans for the summer? Hope everyone is having a great start to summer! 

Here's a poem I wrote! Let me know what you think.

Do you see them? People trapped in prisons of insecurities and fears. Look closely into their eyes and you will see tears. Tears accumulated from Complete frustration, hurt, and desolation. Yet they have no one there to offer comfort and consolation. In their eyes is an emptiness that never dies. You walk past them everyday, too busy to show them there is another way. A way of love, pure love, perfect love from above. You are content to let them be, because the only person you can see in the mirror is "me." They are broken by untold secrets, unfulfilled dreams, and unknown pain. People whose days of sunshine are long gone and they are lost in the blinding rain. Peoples whose lives are shattered. And still others who ended their lives because they were never told the truth that they mattered. You cannot see them because your vision is too dim.

Do you hear them? People are crying. They are dying. They are falling. They are calling. They are haunted by voices from their past, a constant reminder that this darkness will forever last. All they can hear are the voices that whisper, "you'll never be anything. You're worth nothing." Sometimes it's not about the cruel things you said, but what you didn't say. Would it really have been that hard to give them a hug and tell them everything will be ok? Overtime, you will no longer have the capacity to hear. The voices will fade and eventually disappear. You cannot hear them because you are too busy pursuing some new whim.

Do you even care? Or can you even see they are there? Open your eyes-look around-they are everywhere. Can you hear them, their heart wrenching sighs of devastation, their hearts longing for restoration? They say beauty is simply in the eye of the beholder, but we often forget that it is God who is the molder. He molds each and every one of us in a beautiful creation, offering us the gift of reconciliation. Peace is established with God thru the gift of his son; it is thru Jesus' death on the cross, victory is won. Our response should be to give nothing less than our best. To proclaim to the dying world that in Christ, their sins can be removed as far as the east is from the west. The real question is not if you hear them crying, or see them dying, but what will you do? Will you dare to reach out loving arms and tell them of the live they can have anew? Will you offer them compassion instead of making them burn with humiliation? Will you offer liberation instead of condemnation?